My 4 year old sons father has not seen him in 3 years and is planning to come to Wisconsin in a couple months and wants to see him. I am not sure what to do or say, because I have mentioned it to my fiance and my son overheard what I was saying and started crying because he wants nothing to do with his father. Does anyone have any suggestions as to what I should do.
(just a lil info, i have sole custody of my son, and his father is only allowed supervised visitation. but my sons father has said that he wants nothing to do with my son, but now he wants to see him and i dont want to upset my son by forcing him to see his father.)
Asked by Anonymous at 8:24 PM on Oct. 9, 2009 in Preschoolers (3-4)
Answer by ecodani at 8:42 PM on Oct. 9, 2009
Answer by EireLass at 8:57 PM on Oct. 9, 2009
I would let him meet you at a park. Let your son play, let him watch. If your son wants to talk to him so be it, if not then that is what he gets for being sperm donor thus far. Make sure he understands that and that he may not force the issue. If he can't agree to that, then hell know. You are the mommy and what you say goes.
Answer by DevilInPigtails at 9:03 PM on Oct. 9, 2009
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Answer by cjsmith08 at 10:37 PM on Oct. 9, 2009
Answer by Anonymous at 11:33 PM on Oct. 9, 2009