So DH and I got into an argument were he proceeded to throw in the phrase "I should have never married you". Wow. I was shocked. Over something dumb. Why do men think that words don't hurt?
Asked by Anonymous at 9:42 PM on Oct. 9, 2009 in Relationships
Answer by MommyLee08 at 9:52 PM on Oct. 9, 2009
It's a verbal attack to distract you, knock you off balance (emotionally) so he can "win" the argument bc they can't fight fair. I read a great book one time that said Don't Take Things Personally. I think we should add to not take things personally that get said during arguments. SO used to pull that crap and I'd just tell him that was hurtful and unnecessary ...which would throw him off bc I'd be calm when I said it. It scares him when I get calm during an argument! lol
Answer by admckenzie at 10:19 PM on Oct. 9, 2009
Answer by looovemybabies at 10:24 PM on Oct. 9, 2009
Answer by amyrw at 11:33 PM on Oct. 9, 2009
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