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threesoms advice

has any ones so or dh wanted a three som or a extra live in girl friend? how should i feel about this?

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Anonymous

Asked by Anonymous at 1:32 AM on Oct. 10, 2009 in Relationships

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  • everyguy has this fantasy the question is do you? if you dont then tell him thats not something your into. I wouldnt get hurt and upset over it, I dont think i have ever met a guy who didnt think about it at least once.
    3_ring_circus_

    Answer by 3_ring_circus_ at 1:38 AM on Oct. 10, 2009

  • would u if u were ok with females also?
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 1:39 AM on Oct. 10, 2009

  • i think its a bad idea if its with your SO because itll just cause problems..even if you think itll be fine there will be a lot of jealousy that you didnt expect on both parts.
    nillamilkshake

    Answer by nillamilkshake at 1:41 AM on Oct. 10, 2009

  • my dh and i had a threesome but the girl (who was a friend of mine for yrs.) became obsessed with him so yea i lost a friend and my dh didn't even like the threesome we couldn't even finish lol
    waterlily89

    Answer by waterlily89 at 1:42 AM on Oct. 10, 2009

  • Ask him how he would feel if you had a live in bf...
    MyBabyScar

    Answer by MyBabyScar at 1:42 AM on Oct. 10, 2009

  • I think it would be okay as long as you were comfortable with it and the one who picked out the other girl. It would be best if it's not a close friend. Make it someone that won't matter if you lose them because of the experience. Be safe. Everyone should get tested and be safe.

    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 1:46 AM on Oct. 10, 2009

  • he says that there r some haters here lmao but i dont know what to do
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 1:46 AM on Oct. 10, 2009

  • If you aren't 100% sure and comfortable about it, you will likely end up divorced. Just make sure you know what you are getting into. Some people can do it, but most can't.
    sandra1023

    Answer by sandra1023 at 2:07 AM on Oct. 10, 2009

  • If you already had your mind made up then why did you post this? We are not haters, we are honest. No sugar coating it OP, it more than likely will end your marriage. But hey if you are cool with another woman taking your place, more power to ya.
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 2:46 AM on Oct. 10, 2009

  • men want threesomes as a loop hole to have sex with other women. dang lady open your eyes. if he is pushing you into this then kick his arse to the curb.
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 2:47 AM on Oct. 10, 2009

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