Would it be too soon?

It is too soon. Your emotions aren't settled at all yet. Focus on your life as a single person and enjoying it to the max without relying on another person. If you meet someone you like, keep it slow. Work on making and being friends. Make sure you feel good and confident about yourself before you consider another love. Good luck!

Know harm in dating. That doesn't mean you have to get serious. Like you said you are not in your 20's anymore.

You say long term, and mention "more" children, so I am going to assume you've been with him for several years, so I would say yes, it's probably too soon. You need time to heal, to think about what went on and that you are ready to love someone else. You say you don't want a rebound relationship, and at this point, I think that's exactly what you would get. You could even find yourself having another child with someone you haven't dated very long simply b/c they say that's what they want, and that's why you and your boyfriend broke up. I'd wait, at the very least, at least a few weeks. Then, you could start dating, but take it very slow and keep it very casual. Good luck.

i wouldnt be able to be with someone who didnt want more children either. i dont see why you cant date. the best way to get over someone is by dating other people sometimes, just dont jump into anything too serious too soon.

Breaking up is the right thing to do if both of you are sure you can't agree on the issue of more kids. That's not something you can compromise on.

You are looking for a man to be the father of your children. Is it too soon to date? What do you mean by date? If you mean have sex and maybe get pregnant, it's too soon. It's not to soon to go out and have fun with a guy and get to know him with no sex.

if you still have feelings for your ex,u shouldnt try to start a new relationship so soon,give yourself time 2 enjoy life with your kids and give yourself more time 2 make sure its really over b4 u jump into something else,esp if your kids cared about him 2,they need time 2 accept your break up 2.