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the party.

i was over at my friends yesterday and all spring she was talking about her daughters bithday party.i assumed my daughter was invited after all they had played and they were in girl scouts all yr.come to find out she invited the girl next store whose family we dont get along with.the kids never play she is not in girl scouts dont even hang out in recess.the moms arent even daughter is hurt.should i ask the woman why she didnt invite my daughter?should i ask her why she did invite this other little girl?or should i chock it up that my daughter lost out again because of her because for some reason she gets invited to these things that she has no friends at.i must add she is not popluar so it isnt that.(ya that is becoming an issue)they are 10

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Asked by nana77500 at 10:50 AM on Oct. 10, 2009 in General Parenting

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  • That's got to hurt. Time to find a new friend.

    Answer by Gailll at 11:04 AM on Oct. 10, 2009

  • let it go and never talk to that family again. How could she have the nerve to talk to you about it all year and not invite your kids? Shes a snob and doesnt deserve you friendship and doesnt deserve the satisfaction that she got to you

    Answer by Steph319 at 11:15 AM on Oct. 10, 2009

  • Is your daughter upset about this or are these your feelings?  If your daughter is not upset, let it go.

    If it IS a big deal to your daughter, and she is upset, maybe she could let the girl know she really likes her and wanted to celebrate her birthday with her.   

    If she gets some sort of negative response, this should teach her about what kind of "friend" this girl is.  These are hard lessons to learn when you are growing up, but all teaching experiences.

    Here are some books about friends (making and keeping) which might be helpful to your daughter.   Might help her find out what a "true" friend is


    Answer by momjs at 11:18 AM on Oct. 10, 2009

  • id askthe mom why your dd wasnt invited. you certainly have a right to know. i mean, why not? and if she says her dds just didnt wnt her there, then theres your answers. new friends! :)

    Answer by evilive at 2:41 PM on Oct. 10, 2009

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