I had been having an emotiona affair with my best guy friend for over 6 year. The reason it never went any further than that was becaue he moved to another state before the emotional affair took place. I got married 3 years ago and have been dealing with some hardships, as I'm sure every one does, and I let this friend console me. He was married long before I was and for much longer than I. He was there for me through my miscarriage when my husband was not. I told him that what our relationship had turned into was no longer appropriate; and that we needed to break it off now. So we did, and now I am heart broken. I love my husband and never intend on divorcing him, but now I feel like my world is crumbling underneth me. I want to get over this quick so I can be present for my family. HELP. How can I get over my affair?
Asked by Anonymous at 12:10 PM on Oct. 10, 2009 in Relationships
Answer by Anonymous at 12:19 PM on Oct. 10, 2009
Answer by Gailll at 12:27 PM on Oct. 10, 2009
Answer by Anonymous at 12:53 PM on Oct. 10, 2009
Answer by LoriKeet at 1:38 PM on Oct. 10, 2009
I'm probably going to be the odd one out here, but is your husband a good man? You said he wasn't there for you when you had a miscarriage, does he care about you or is he just getting territorial over his "property"? If you are actually married to a good man, try counseling. If you're with a jerk, that's probably why you needed someone else in the 1st place. Cheating is wrong, but since it has already happened in your case I'm just trying to help you figure out why it happened in the 1st place. Good luck!
Answer by Wifey2Watson at 2:44 PM on Oct. 10, 2009
Answer by Anonymous at 3:40 PM on Oct. 10, 2009
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