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What is one thing that would make you leave your relationship besides him cheating?

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Asked by Anonymous at 2:45 PM on Oct. 10, 2009 in Just for Fun

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  • any kind of abuse...

    Answer by mellyhayes at 2:46 PM on Oct. 10, 2009

  • Verbal and physical abuse.

    Answer by K_Sawyer at 2:47 PM on Oct. 10, 2009

  • drugs, physical abuse

    Answer by 3_ring_circus_ at 2:59 PM on Oct. 10, 2009

  • yep one is drugs...the other is dissapearing for days for no good reason, and letting people like his sis or anyone else get in the middle of us and our business

    Answer by americansugar80 at 3:21 PM on Oct. 10, 2009

  • Well, I wouldn't leave if he were "cheating" unless he hid it from me.
    I didn't leave because of drugs - we worked through it and got him help.
    He's never hit me but if he did we would do our best to work through it. If he became "abusive" and we couldn't get him help, I would have to leave.
    If he ever abused the children I would have to leave.
    If he ever tried to control me or take my freedom I would be out in a second.

    Answer by SabrinaMBowen at 3:22 PM on Oct. 10, 2009

  • Putting our child in danger knowingly
    Lying about something really big and denying it
    Physical abuse
    Refusing to provide for us with no good reason

    Answer by Anonymous at 3:37 PM on Oct. 10, 2009

  • physical abuse but he has too much respect for himself to ever hit me.

    Answer by mamak57 at 3:45 PM on Oct. 10, 2009

  • Any kind of abuse to me or my children, repeatedly lying (loss of trust), no communication, drug abuse, anything that puts me or my children in danger.

    Answer by tyfry7496 at 4:22 PM on Oct. 10, 2009

  • abuse to me or my children, murder, rape, robbery, any sort of violence really. if my dh became addicted to drugs i would try and help him but after a couple times in rehab i'd have to look out for myself and my children.

    Answer by MoonLover06 at 4:47 PM on Oct. 10, 2009

  • I would totally leave my husband if he got into debt without telling me.
    I know other people have those extreme reasons for why they would leave their SO-- I don't think my husband would ever do those things to me *Hence the reason why I married him.*

    Anyway, for a mild, could possibly happen reason, if my husband got into debt then yeah we'd break up. He knows that though :)

    Answer by Anonymous at 6:00 PM on Oct. 10, 2009

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