I have trouble trusting and stuff but the only guy I trust around my daughter is my ex. I think I'm ready to start dating again but I'm afraid cause I don't want to meet a guy who in the future turns out to be abusive and hurts my daughter, I have nightmares about it all the time. The last guy I tried to date, a rebound right after my separation was very emotionally closed off and my daughter got hit in the head with the door and all he said was you're fine stop crying. He wasn't even concerned! I dumped him so fast! I'm worried I'll never find anyone and I'm still in love with my ex but he has a new gf and loves his life now..Answer Question
Asked by Anonymous at 8:44 PM on Oct. 11, 2009 in Relationships
Answer by Anonymous at 8:46 PM on Oct. 11, 2009
Answer by Shyma at 8:49 PM on Oct. 11, 2009
Answer by Anonymous at 9:05 PM on Oct. 11, 2009
It is true,everyone needs someone,do you know why you feel like someone will hurt your DD,were you abused. I was married,then divorced, when I dated, I just dated,but,I didn't bring anyone to my home.Then, I met my DH,this man was a dream come true,he has been more of a father than any man could be,he knew I had been hurt,so,his main goal in life was to make sure I and my 2 kids were provided for and love,we now have 3 more kids,and that was almost 20 years ago,and he is still my knight and shinning armour. I respect you for being careful about inviting people around your DD,but, you will find someone who you can trust. I'm so glad I did.
Answer by Anonymous at 9:24 PM on Oct. 11, 2009
Answer by Anonymous at 9:34 PM on Oct. 11, 2009
This is anon24, I could tell by your post you had been abused,did you get therapy. You sound like you are a very intelligent young lady. Although, I wasn't abused, I just chose not to have men around my girls,I think you should keep dating,but keep the people away from your DD, you will know when the right person come along, you can introduce her in a wide open space,but,still keep him from your house.Good luck. Tell grandma to stop watching those scary videos, I watch them too,lol.
Answer by Anonymous at 9:43 PM on Oct. 11, 2009
Answer by admckenzie at 9:53 PM on Oct. 11, 2009