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Is it ridiculous to have 3 small children and put them all in daycare if you work? Like, why have all the kids if you are going to be at work all day, and isn't that expensive?

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Asked by Anonymous at 12:06 AM on Oct. 12, 2009 in Just for Fun

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  • Who cares that's there business

    Answer by looovemybabies at 12:07 AM on Oct. 12, 2009

  • Why spend so much time judging how others lead their lives? You're bitching because they're working to support their kids, you'd be bitchin if they stayed home and received welfare. Seriously, worry about yourself and noone else.

    Answer by KalebsMommee at 12:08 AM on Oct. 12, 2009

  • Opposed to leaving them home alone? Or not working and living off government assistance programs?

    I'm sorry it seems ridiculous, In my honest opinion, to tell women they shouldn't be allowed to be mother's if they need or want to have a career... It may be expensive or it could be based on a sliding scale according to pay.

    Answer by kfroz0415 at 12:08 AM on Oct. 12, 2009

  • i agree with the first response a firm believer in "taking care" of my own children..i dont want any of my babies in daycare. JMO. but i do realize that i am very lucky to be finacially stable enough to where i dont have to have an outside job.

    Answer by naturepeace at 12:09 AM on Oct. 12, 2009

  • Just because someone puts their child in daycare does not mean they aren't "taking care of" their own children. It pisses me off when people reference that. Moms who work can take care of their children just as much as moms who stay at home. It's bullshit.

    Answer by Anonymous at 12:10 AM on Oct. 12, 2009

  • i didnt mean it in a mean way..thats the only way i could compare it the way the OP was referring, hence the quotations. im sorry if you took offense..too bad you didnt feel strongly enough about your opinion to put your name on it..anywho.

    Answer by naturepeace at 12:15 AM on Oct. 12, 2009

  • I wouldn't even have that many kids to begin with...

    Answer by prettyrayray at 12:18 AM on Oct. 12, 2009

  • judgemental people are going to get em!

    Answer by OneToughMami at 12:25 AM on Oct. 12, 2009

  • Sometimes parents Have to work because the one income just isn't enough anymore. Now more than ever. The parents probably recieve some assistace or have a sibling discount at the day care. Of course the mother could have more than likely stayed at home and became involved with work from home- but that probably was not an option for her. Its not ridiculous anymore- because that's just the world we are living in. The husbands are starting to feel resentment because that one paycheck just isn't enough- and well us women just want MORe, more more. SO what do you think happens? We go out and get MORE, MORE,MORE! We created this -so we have to live with this.

    Answer by Anonymous at 12:35 AM on Oct. 12, 2009

  • why have 3 small children if you can't afford them anyway?

    Answer by thehairnazi at 12:37 AM on Oct. 12, 2009

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