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wouls you go to her funeral

my mother-in-law die last week and the funeral will be this friday. my question is would you go to her funeral even though she never liked you. i want to go to support my hubby.................please help

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adoradamia

Asked by adoradamia at 5:53 PM on Oct. 12, 2009 in Relationships

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  • You go to support your hubby. He needs you.
    gammie

    Answer by gammie at 5:54 PM on Oct. 12, 2009

  • Yes you should go.

    1) you are there to support the living
    2) this could cause a family rift
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 5:56 PM on Oct. 12, 2009

  • You should go, period.
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 6:04 PM on Oct. 12, 2009

  • i would go
    mommie2twogirls

    Answer by mommie2twogirls at 6:04 PM on Oct. 12, 2009

  • I would go.
    Your husband needs you. Why would you deny him the comfort that you're able to give him, just because the person who passed didn't like you?
    K_Sawyer

    Answer by K_Sawyer at 6:08 PM on Oct. 12, 2009

  • Yes, I don't have to get along with the woman but "I DO" have to support my husband. That was part of the vows...thru thick and thin...
    Jademom07

    Answer by Jademom07 at 6:23 PM on Oct. 12, 2009

  • yes go to support your husband, I would go in his dad or step mom died lol me and his step mom never got along and ppl know that but they would also know that my husband might need the comfort
    waterlily89

    Answer by waterlily89 at 6:25 PM on Oct. 12, 2009

  • Yea, I would go. If for nothing else but to show your husband support. He more than likely needs you at his side. Save him the awkwardness of having to explain your absence. The funerals are not for the departed, they are for surviving family.

    pnwmom

    Answer by pnwmom at 6:30 PM on Oct. 12, 2009

  • If you want to support him then go
    admckenzie

    Answer by admckenzie at 6:38 PM on Oct. 12, 2009

  • YES! You go to support your husband and family. Also if you have children, you show them by example that this is the right thing to do. Moments like this require everyone to put down their differences and be the bigger person.
    LoriKeet

    Answer by LoriKeet at 6:42 PM on Oct. 12, 2009

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