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my husband...

my husband is in the army.i live with my kids at my parents right now.he is a major and gets transferred ever other week it seems.he is older than you guys so have faith....any way he wants to become a batallion commander/lt.col.i dont know how long this will take him but in any case i heard if he does become a lt.col. like he wants i will have to transfer with him.since my kids are little and content in school i was wondering if this is true?i know this seems selfish but it is what works right now...

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Asked by Anonymous at 6:48 PM on Oct. 12, 2009 in Relationships

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  • I would transfer with him...why wouldn't you want to be with your husband? Why be married?

    Answer by Jademom07 at 6:50 PM on Oct. 12, 2009

  • wow military here for 17 years and have never heard of anyone changing posts more often than 2 years. Yes move with your husband thousands of military wives have kids and have no problem moving with their spouses.

    Answer by Anonymous at 6:52 PM on Oct. 12, 2009

  • Yeah, I haven't heard of anyone changing posts more often than 2 years either. I hadn't been a military wife for long, but I'm also a military brat, that's just strange... :/

    I would move to be with him and for him to be with his kiddos.. I kind of agree with Jademom, why even be married?

    Answer by K_Sawyer at 7:23 PM on Oct. 12, 2009

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