I don't think there was anything wrong with your son showering with you when he was a baby, but I think that at this point, you should be showering alone.
It's one thing to, say, be changing or something when he's in the room, because the space is bigger, and there's other things so he's not really going to pay attention.
But, if you think about it - this is what's at his eye level. And in the close confines of a shower, it's "up close and personal" if you know what I mean. Plus, at this age, kids are very curious and want to explore their environment. You put all of that together, and, well...
I think, at this point, it would be best if you're home alone (I tried to answer your other question on this), then you should shower before he gets up or after he's asleep, and give him his bath separately.
at 11:06 PM on Oct. 13, 2009