Join the Meeting Place for Moms!
Talk to other moms, share advice, and have fun!

(minimum 6 characters)

Why do some people dress slutty because they don't want to look like a "mom"?

I don't get it! I heard this from a few people. They dress really trashy,no bras,miniskirts that could pass as shirts,etc. I didn't know that all us moms dressed like tramps before we had kids? They tell me they don't want to dress like a mom. What is a mom supposed to dress like?

Answer Question

Asked by Anonymous at 6:24 PM on Oct. 14, 2009 in Just for Fun

Answers (13)
  • I bought a TON of Mu-moos when I found out I was pregnant because isn't that what a mom wears? LOL...I don't dress any differently now than I did before (except maybe the size)...flirty tops when going out with my man and other times just jeans/shorts/capris and a t-shirt or tank top.

    Answer by Jademom07 at 6:28 PM on Oct. 14, 2009

  • I don't know any Moms like that. Yikes. None of us want to dress like sluts. that is disgusting. How do Moms dress? LOL. Just like anyone else,I think. Maybe they just want to dress like a slut and use that as an excuse?

    Answer by Lindalu2 at 6:40 PM on Oct. 14, 2009

  • I m actually trying to start dressing more mom like not that i dressed trampy before just more plain stylish shirts instead of shirts that say rock on or somethin like that u know?

    Answer by aidensmama8 at 6:41 PM on Oct. 14, 2009

  • Because they have no respect for themselves and don't seem to realize you can be sexy w/o being trashy.


    Answer by abbynzachsmommy at 6:43 PM on Oct. 14, 2009

  • I don't dress any different now than I did before I came a mom. I never nor do I do now dress trampy. Women need to have respect for themselves. There is a difference between sexy and trampy.

    Answer by officerjoeys at 6:56 PM on Oct. 14, 2009

  • The only way i dress differently is i don't wear such low-cut tops as i did before. I tried after DD was born, and just felt foolish walking around with my boobs hanging out. Motherhood definitely made me grow up!! Several of my friends still dress like their 18 and going to a night club- when their taking their kids to wal mart! Just because your a mom doesn't mean you have to start wearing tacky sweaters, ugly shoes, and the classic "mom jeans". But it also doesn't mean that you need to dress like a tramp.

    Answer by alexsmomma06 at 6:59 PM on Oct. 14, 2009

  • I never dressed like a slut and I never dressed like a Mom. I dress like a normal reasonably fashionable modern woman.

    Answer by Anonymous at 7:09 PM on Oct. 14, 2009

  • HATER! hehehe

    Answer by Anonymous at 7:10 PM on Oct. 14, 2009

  • Since I first heard the term, I knew I aspired to be a MILF. MILFs aren't trashy, they are alluring. A true MILF can dress conservative enough for communion at the Vatican while looking scrumptious. I definitely like to rock the MILF business suit.

    Answer by ecodani at 7:34 PM on Oct. 14, 2009

  • i'm still gonna dress sexy.... but that doesn't mean i'm gonna have my a$$ and tits hanging out!!!


    Answer by mellyhayes at 8:28 PM on Oct. 14, 2009

Join CafeMom now to contribute your answer and become part of our community. It's free and takes just a minute.