I've been best friends with my best friend for 13 years. We've gone through middle school, high school, boyfriends, tears... etc. But she does something that really annoys me.
Her other best friend is my worse enemy and she is constantly telling me what they talk about, what their plans are, how bad my enemy talks about me and so much more. I sometimes feel like my enemy/her friend is more important than me because she tells everyone that she is her best friend and I don't get the same treatment.
The reason this girl is my enemy is because she used to bully me and tell me how ugly I was all the time. That left emotional scars which I still suffer from those words she said today.
I know that my best friend has been friends with her for years also, but I am tired of feeling like I'm not good enough. What do I do?
Asked by Anonymous at 10:26 PM on Oct. 14, 2009 in Relationships
Sweetie if this woman was really your friend, she wouldn't be telling you things to upset you like that. Telling you that her other friend talks crap about you sounds a bit drama queeny to me. Find some new friends, ones who won't talk about you behind your back.
Answer by Katrina3016 at 10:29 PM on Oct. 14, 2009
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Answer by beckcorc at 11:24 PM on Oct. 14, 2009
If she really was your best friend she would tell her other friend (your enemy) not to talk that way about you cuz you guys are friends. Second of all her telling you all the hurtful things she is talking about you is not a best friend behavior, you could be sure she (your best friend) talks crap behind your back, you need to be honest with her, which I'm pretty sure won't change anything cuz if your friend really cared about you she would not be acting like a high school drama queen, I would just move on cuz friends like that are not worth you time all they do is drag you down and give you low self esteem.
That girl calling you ugly and making fun of you only means she was jealous of you so don't let that bring you down, just hold your head up high and be proud of who you are, cuz your a women and that alone is beautiful, good luck momma.
Answer by looovemybabies at 11:30 PM on Oct. 14, 2009
Answer by Anonymous at 11:39 PM on Oct. 14, 2009