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to all u pregnant ladies out there

hi every1!
i've heard that when alot of u ladies have been pregnant that ur husbands are not as into sex as they were pre-pregnancy, beacuse of the actual pregnancy.....
i am almost 8months pregnant and well sure our sex life has decreased a little but my husband still can't resist do u all cope with ur husband being like that....and has it been like that for u?

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Asked by Anonymous at 10:46 PM on Oct. 14, 2009 in Pregnancy

Answers (9)
  • My husband's sexual levels have actually increased... and steadily rising!
    I don't know if it's the fact that me having no sex drive, for a change, is turning him on, or he has that fetish where he finds me somehow more attractive because I'm pregnant. lol. . he was the same way with my firstborn and I had a sex drive then. Maybe it is the fetish. >_>

    Answer by K_Sawyer at 10:49 PM on Oct. 14, 2009

  • My husband still wants it ALL the, not so much. I just don't feel up to it

    Answer by heartfrommyson at 10:53 PM on Oct. 14, 2009

  • Well we do all have larger boobs than usual - It's not that hard to figure out why our guys are a little more hot and bothered ;)


    Answer by Anonymous at 11:12 PM on Oct. 14, 2009

  • Pregnancy has never lowered my husband's interest.

    Answer by Anonymous at 11:25 PM on Oct. 14, 2009

  • My husband still won't leave me alone LOL! I don't mind though..... :)

    Answer by Anonymous at 12:41 AM on Oct. 15, 2009

  • Well, I'm not currently pregnant...I had my baby almost 3 weeks ago. However, I actually think our sex life picked up and we had sex more often. That is, until the very end bc I was so uncomfortable and actually in pain.

    Answer by StefanieN84 at 1:05 AM on Oct. 15, 2009

  • It hasnt changed anything, he wants it all the time! Except now we are waiting to hear if I have preeclampsia so we might not have sex for a while!

    Answer by mrsmilander at 1:21 AM on Oct. 15, 2009

  • i'm almost 38 weeks come friday and my hubby's sex drive picked up when i became pregnant. even though sometimes i don't feel up to it, i find it very encouraging and lifts my spirits when i feel "big". i've never been unfit in my entire life and so being prego has been a rough ride when it comes to looking and feeling attractive. it almost makes me feel like God picked his labedo up so that I wouldn't get down. he's really good about asking what is best for me at the time...

    Answer by Marri357 at 2:28 AM on Oct. 15, 2009

  • I haven't experienced a decrease either. Our sex life stays pretty consistant pregnant or not. He does however stare at my already large breasts more so when I'm pregnant though.

    Answer by luvbnmomnwife at 4:22 PM on Oct. 15, 2009

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