I was cheated on this Monday I posted story and well we had it all perfect I dont lie PERFECT laughs, joy, all that happiness. He left to work and went out with a so called friend, he stayed out late and came back with hickies. He didnt even know he had him till I showed him and he said he dont recall. I dont care what story is DAMAGE is done. His ex warned me laughed at me and said he will cheat 2 yrs later he has. I dont know what to do we have kids and Im 32 weeks pregnant Im lost, confused and hurt. I love him even after this, he is my best friend, my partner and DH. Last time I was cheated on I walked out and never looked back hurt, but moved on. Im scared to stay and never trust again, Im scared to stay and be hurt again. I dont know if we will be able to save the LOVE and FAMILY we had. I never feared walking out, I dont fear leaving now, but something holds me HOW HAPPY I SEE MY KIDS? IM PREGNANT? I LOVE HIM ? DKAnswer Question
Asked by Anonymous at 4:01 PM on Oct. 15, 2009 in Relationships
Answer by Jademom07 at 4:10 PM on Oct. 15, 2009
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Answer by Anonymous at 5:09 PM on Oct. 15, 2009
I have never been cheated on, and I have already decided that if my DH cheats on me, I would make him leave and never come back. HOWEVER, my dad cheated on my mom once. It was nothing and he never thought it would get that far, but it did. They stayed together. I wasn't sure why at first, but now I see how much he really does love her. I can see how much he appreciates her. They are actually happy now. Give it time, I am sure you will find out if you stying with him was the right thing. Something else you have to consider. How long have you been married? For the past few years you have been some one's wife and mother. You have forgotten what it's like to be on your own, and I think this scares you more than anything. I know it scares me. I'm not saying leave your marriage, but you have to be honest with yourself about why you stayed with him.
Answer by krissyvelazquez at 5:50 PM on Oct. 15, 2009