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Collecting tips for a new mom

I am collecting tips to put together for a young girl I know who is having a baby. Any tips or advice or things you wish someone had told you would be great. Thanks ladies!

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preacherskid

Asked by preacherskid at 9:57 AM on Oct. 16, 2009 in General Parenting

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  • Breastfeed
    Gailll

    Answer by Gailll at 9:58 AM on Oct. 16, 2009

  • one thing i HATED when i was pregnant was people always telling me what was a good thing to do and what not to do...i got it from soooo many different people that after a while it drove me crazy! if you want to give something to your friend get the book what to expect when your expecting...EVERYTHING she might need to know is in that book....also they make another book by the same author called what to expect, the first year...i would get her this one too maybe...ANYTHING she will need to know are in these books...
    blueeyedgrl2377

    Answer by blueeyedgrl2377 at 10:07 AM on Oct. 16, 2009

  • Bottlefeed or breast do what works best for you and your child. Put your child FIRST no matter what. Tell your child that you love them all the time. Listen to your gut feelings about whatever comes about, mommys always know what's best for there child, try and sleep when the baby is sleeping, your house work will always be there, baby comes first. I hope that helps you out.
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 10:09 AM on Oct. 16, 2009

  • Listen to others, and think about what they say, but at the end of the day listen to your heart and do what is best for you and your family!

    Being a good parent means having to make the tough choices that your baby cannot make for themselves!
    Rebecca727

    Answer by Rebecca727 at 10:10 AM on Oct. 16, 2009

  • i always get new moms a copy of Super Baby Food by Ruth Yaron and a portable food mill.
    rkoloms

    Answer by rkoloms at 10:11 AM on Oct. 16, 2009

  • Take advice...listen to it, process it but do it YOUR way---don't be swayed by others opinions if you don't agree
    bumblebeestingu

    Answer by bumblebeestingu at 10:16 AM on Oct. 16, 2009

  • Know your child isn't perfect, and love them for who they are - warts and all. Know you, as a mom, are also not perfect, and also love yourself, warts and all.

    Be the best mom you can be, and be fully involved as much as you can every step of the way, because they will only be each age once. But at the same time, don't lose sight of who you are as an individual, separate from being "mom". Not just for yourself, but for your kids, because they will learn how to parent - and keep their own identity, from watching how you do it.

    Keep a sense of humor.

    Don't be afraid to be the bad guy.

    sailorwifenmom

    Answer by sailorwifenmom at 10:33 AM on Oct. 16, 2009

  • There is nothing like family, never take them for granted.
    tpickle

    Answer by tpickle at 10:47 AM on Oct. 16, 2009

  • Don't listen to other people's horror stories about how awful labor is, how breastfeeding "fails", or how awful parenthood is.

    You are having a beautiful baby. It will be hard, but it will be the best thing you've ever done, the most rewarding. Don't let others scare you about it, or tell you how YOUR experience is going to be.
    apexmommy

    Answer by apexmommy at 10:48 AM on Oct. 16, 2009

  • Get out, get moving and enjoy life with baby. Do not be afraid of everything you read or hear. Parent with your mind and heart... always listen to your gut!
    wildboyz1994

    Answer by wildboyz1994 at 10:57 AM on Oct. 16, 2009

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