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Why don't exwives leave their exdh's alone? (why keep popping in their lives)

How do you handle something that won't go away (well sometimes she does) but whenever she decides she wants something she just appears.

I am talking about the exwife...why not leave us alone. 1. Is it bc she is not happy in her current life. 2. Is she just being a witch bc c/s is going to end sometime in the future (almost 18) 3. Or she is just wanting to know what is going on in our lives and trying to keep it open and being nosy by asking for money.

The only reason she should be calling my dh is...well really for nothing she has the kids living with her and she is getting the child support so why not live her supposebley happy life.



Asked by Anonymous at 10:29 AM on Oct. 16, 2009 in Relationships

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Answers (5)
  • Because she lost him. Some women (and men as well) have a hard time letting go, even if it was because of something they did. They want to hurt them because they are miserable and will do anything to stay in his/her life. It's crazy and annoying as heck, but it happens.

    Answer by MommyLee08 at 10:36 AM on Oct. 16, 2009

  • When you get involve with a man that has kids you are getting involved with his kids and his ex for the rest of your life. She is the mother of his children. If you don't like it then get involved with a man that doesn't have kids.

    Answer by Gailll at 10:34 AM on Oct. 16, 2009

  • Talk with hubby and let him know how your feeling about this situation. If that doesn't work then have a chat with her.

    Answer by raemommy at 10:34 AM on Oct. 16, 2009

  • Just because they are divorced doesn't mean they aren't family. They are his family first. You are his second wife. You chose to marry him knowing you would be second. So deal with it.

    Answer by Chrissy629 at 10:40 AM on Oct. 16, 2009

  • I understand your point of view, I would be thinking the same thing. Does your husband get the kids on weekends or holidays? Perhaps its to check in about the children or to see what they will be doing???? Maybe if you talk to your husband about it, say it is making you uncomfortable

    Answer by hazeleyezmommy at 10:41 AM on Oct. 16, 2009