Im 29 weeks pregnant. The father of the baby is 33 years old and I am 26. For the last 5 months I have let the father live with me and my parents pay the bill. I share my food with him, and give him what little money I have to keep him happy (beer).
I let him go out with his friends even though Im never invited and I know he lies to me about what he is doing. Out of the whole year ive been with him i have yet to recieve a present or get a date. I have told him to leave befor (like 3 times) but I guess he dosent understand what 'leave' means. He just got a job last week but i am expected to pick him up and take him to work, and sometimes bring his friends home from work too. He owes my parents alot of money- but i dont think he will pay it back if i kick him out. Im trying to make this work for my baby, because i think knowing his father is important. Is it this important? I know Im doing something wrong, but what is i
Answer by Steph319 at 6:38 AM on Oct. 17, 2009
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Answer by LoriaAnn at 1:04 PM on Oct. 17, 2009
I am going from the original question, should you stay. If you do not mind the things that are mentioned in your post, the things he is doing to you and the things that you are doing to keep this relationship afloat then yes stay. But if the things that you are doing are stretching you thin and give you pause as to whether you should stay or if things will change then, yes you should go. There is a good chance that nothing is going to change because you have already cosigned to the things you have listed you have not inserted what you want or expect and you have even contributed to the actions that you don't agree with.
Answer by Iconoclast at 3:02 PM on Oct. 17, 2009
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