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do you consider yourself bisexual?

i am posting this anon because i dont want to start any drama and prefer the more conservative moms on here to not preach at me. i very much appreciate the beauty of another woman and enjoy sexual encounters with other women. i've yet to meet another woman that i believe i could be in a relationship with, but i am open to the possibility. i am happily in a relationship with a wonderful man right now and we occasionally add another woman for fun. i would love to have a full time girlfriend on the side and occasionally have us all get together for some adult playtime. i understand that this is not the norm, but i really do think most women are aroused by other women....wether they are willing to admit it or not might well be another story. feel free to respond anon.

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Asked by Anonymous at 8:46 PM on Oct. 17, 2009 in Relationships

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  • I saw your first post that wasn't anon. I'm not going to preach, even though I'm one of the more conservative moms you mention. I am definitely a "man only" type of girl!
    But I am not immune to the beauty of a woman's body. I admire it. But, I don't want to f**k it! LOL

    As for adding another woman to your relationship with your SO, be careful she's not going to try to take him from you.

    Answer by 07upsydaisy at 8:49 PM on Oct. 17, 2009

  • im not gonna say the thoughts never crossed my mind, but ive never actually dont anything with a girl and i never will. actually, i kissed my best friend once at the bar when we were really drunk but thats about it. and i would never bring another girl in with me and my boyfriend. no way. thats crazy. but whatever makes you happy =)

    Answer by PURPULbutterfly at 8:50 PM on Oct. 17, 2009

  • I can admire a beautiful woman but the sexual interest is just not there. I also think bringing in a third parties doesn't always end well, it is hard enough a two person relationship, so a third one would way too complicated for my taste, but to each his own.

    Answer by older at 8:53 PM on Oct. 17, 2009

  • i used to. but it was a phase for me..... now i know what i like, want, need, etc

    Answer by Anonymous at 8:56 PM on Oct. 17, 2009

  • i feel the same way as you but the only difference is i dont have woman coming in and out of my house, im too scared that things might happen. hubby asked if we would ever do such a thing but my mind says we cant but its a fantasy in a way.

    Answer by americansugar80 at 8:56 PM on Oct. 17, 2009

  • Nah, I'm straight. Like a pp, I do occasionally admire a beautiful woman but it's never sexual. But the weird thing is, I was just reading another question and someone mentioned a lesbian website, so I went to it because I'm extremely nosy, and I somehow got turned on lol. I didn't want to have sex with the women I saw, but it definitely made me want to give the bf a call!

    Answer by Anonymous at 8:59 PM on Oct. 17, 2009

  • Anon 5:59~

    Yeah, that is how I feel about it, too. Porn turns me on, but makes me want the hub.

    Answer by 07upsydaisy at 9:04 PM on Oct. 17, 2009

  • I'm bi and married to a wonderful man. I've never included him in my encounters with women nor do I have a desire to be in a relationship with a woman. Sex with women only make me horny. I want DH so bad afterwards. Sometimes you just want the gentle touch and feel of something softer and other times you want hubbys 'man hands' make a long story short, Congratulations, Youre Bi :)

    Answer by Anonymous at 9:08 PM on Oct. 17, 2009

  • Woman on woman porn turns me on so much that I have an orgasm after 2 min. My BF would love to see with another woman, but I am too scared to do that. I do feel some attraction to some woman with great bodies or ass, but I dont think I can ever do more than look.

    Answer by Anonymous at 10:26 PM on Oct. 17, 2009

  • No. I love men. After living downstairs from two women, I got sick of the loud sex and the cops coming and going for domestic abuse.They even stole mail from us and packages.

    Answer by bella69147 at 10:54 PM on Oct. 17, 2009

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