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My husband has asked me to make an erotic video for him for his birthday. I want to but I have no idea how to go about it. Any ideas, how to's, websites that can help me?

I want it to be tasteful but nasty, sexy, sensual. I want to knock his socks off by being the opposite of the usual me (introverted and reserved), but the problem is I have never seen myself as particularly sexy and have no idea how to do it.

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Asked by Anonymous at 9:14 PM on Oct. 17, 2009 in Just for Fun

Answers (18)
  • Whoa. Don't put anything on tape you don't want everyone to see.

    Answer by 07upsydaisy at 9:15 PM on Oct. 17, 2009

  • Be careful with this one! NOOOO Offense intended but, men come and go but that video will last forever!!!!

    Answer by SEEKEROFSHELLS at 9:16 PM on Oct. 17, 2009

  • Lol watch porno's and get ideas. When hes done watching it- burn it.

    Answer by kerri- at 9:17 PM on Oct. 17, 2009

  • me and my SO made a video of us having sex & then we watched it together.

    Answer by PURPULbutterfly at 9:18 PM on Oct. 17, 2009

  • OP here- this year will be our 10th anniversary. I think we're ok here lol. I trust him not to do anything with it except view it, even if for some reason we end up not together. Thanks for the advice and warnings though.

    Answer by Anonymous at 9:19 PM on Oct. 17, 2009

  • I'm no real help, but ignore other people...i mean you're married afterall...just keep an eye on it if ya know what I mean ; )
    I'd get some sexy provacative lingerie and go from can always look at porn for ideas...I personally don't like that kind of stuff but I think it might give some love that crap afterall. lol

    Answer by jazi1105 at 9:20 PM on Oct. 17, 2009

  • 10 years?? I would have sex with a girl and tape it. Let him watch it. If he is into that. I don't like girls but I would do it to "knock his socks off" congrats on 10 years!!

    Answer by Mrs.Oriaku at 9:22 PM on Oct. 17, 2009

  • I been with my hubby 13 years and still wouldn't put anything on video like that.

    Answer by Anonymous at 9:25 PM on Oct. 17, 2009

  • Whoa mrs.oriaku , I think her hubby might get pissed that she taped that without him joining in. If you're reserved, my guess is you wouldn't do that(I know I wouldn't). I'd say just look online and get some ideas. If you're husband is asking you to make him a tape, then you must be sexy to him! Just keep that in mind while making it. Good Luck

    Answer by msfila1980 at 9:27 PM on Oct. 17, 2009

  • I'd do a strip tease. That is sexy and sensual.

    Answer by BridgetC140 at 9:27 PM on Oct. 17, 2009

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