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few months ago i met this wonderful guy on the internet we chatted for a while n we become good friends now we are in love and he wants to marry me but he is a muslim and also married am confused coz i love him and i dont want to loose him

he has a family but he says that he loves me n i love him am confused help me coz am lonely

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Asked by Evy30 at 10:09 AM on Oct. 18, 2009 in Relationships

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  • You do not need a pig like him. If hes cheating on his wife then hell cheat on you too. Dont let him get the best of you. You are volnerable right now and need some along time to yourself. You need to love yourself before you can love someone esle and if your letting a man like this into your life then it shows that you dont love yourself. dont put yoruself or his family through this. Cut it off and move on GL

    Answer by Steph319 at 10:14 AM on Oct. 18, 2009

  • You got with a married man? You should be ashamed of yourself. You are probably a great person though so you should find a man that is single, one that you can marry and trust.

    Answer by Anonymous at 10:45 AM on Oct. 18, 2009

  • He's married. Have some respect for yourself and respect for his wife (which he obviously doesn't have) and leave him alone. There are plenty of single men out there so stay away from the married ones.

    Answer by abbynzachsmommy at 10:47 AM on Oct. 18, 2009

  • You are either very young or very immature. A mature adult knows that love is a choice & that deep love takes time, commentment & trust. Drop him, grow up & eventually you will find the right guy for you.

    Answer by Anonymous at 10:48 AM on Oct. 18, 2009

  • He's married. You can't lose him because you never really had him. Please, move on.

    Answer by Pnukey at 10:50 AM on Oct. 18, 2009

  • There are men out there who prey on lonely women. Please be careful and protect your heart. I'm not bashing but I'm guessing he tells his wife he loves her too and shows her by taking care of her each day. A godly married man, Muslim or not, would not be on the Internet looking for women. Please know that a lot of men who do that have many woman they chase and convince they love them. I hope you see this man for what he is, a predator taking advantage of your vulnerability.

    Answer by Anonymous at 10:54 AM on Oct. 18, 2009

  • key word, in your own word LONELY! that is your problem, when you are LONELY that is when you are most vunerable, which allows you to open up to the first jerk that comes along, first off that is just to risky meeting people over the internet, secondly why would you no how can you marry someone that is already married? sounds like he's pulling a fast one on you. he's working on a weak mind (YOU) he no's what to say to make you feel good and you bought it all and you mention lonely just think about how lonely things will be if this PERSON is in your life and is going back and fourth with you and his wife, lady please move on with a more stable and promising relationship, this man is already spoken for and god bless you and the wife, and don't forget when you choice a mate is he worth your children meeting/is he safe/single, ect, in the words of the divorce court judge "THINK DEEP BEFORE YOU LEEP"!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

    Answer by mememommie at 11:36 AM on Oct. 18, 2009

  • You've posted & reposted this same question with different "background stories" like 3 times already.

    I call troll.

    Answer by Anonymous at 12:49 PM on Oct. 18, 2009

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