I been marrried for 6 years to a functioning alcoholic. According to him he does not have such a big problem cause he drinks on weekends and a few drinks during the week. Out of the 6 years, the most we ever got to live under the same room would be a bout 3 months. He would come home al late or not at all and I would pack my bags ang go back to my mother. He used to always say that the day we had a baby he would change and stop drinking. Well, she is here and the same. I am pissed regardless because our friends are all married and leaving together with their newborn babies, Us, as soon as my baby was born, he decided to move in with his mother in order to now save money for a house for usanwhile, I am doing everything for my baby. Last night I got pissed because instead of getting ready to see my baby and brother, he decides to first go out drinking, " just for a few drinks" with his friends. Should i divorce already.Answer Question
Answer by Anonymous at 11:16 AM on Oct. 18, 2009
Answer by Anonymous at 11:44 AM on Oct. 18, 2009
Answer by mcdthree at 12:01 PM on Oct. 18, 2009
Answer by Iconoclast at 12:15 PM on Oct. 18, 2009
Answer by Anonymous at 1:06 PM on Oct. 18, 2009
I understand trying to support her but telling her the truth that yes in part she did this to herself and that she has brought this on her child is not nasty. I understand wanting to say 'leave him' 'sorry this is happening to you' but this was not out of the blue is what the person was getting at. Many women go into a relationship with eyes open and decide to blind themselves. She needs to look at this situation realistically and make a decision.
Answer by Iconoclast at 1:32 PM on Oct. 18, 2009