my husband is a truck driver and is gone for 2 to 3 weeks at a time,I just found out he is texting/talking with a female truck driver and to my suprise it has been going on for 4 or 5 months,he says they are just friends that trade innocent text messages,but he has kept this "friend" to his self. How I found out was he got a text when he was home and I asked him who it was from and he said from a guy he traded numbers with,well my gut told me something was up so I called the number after he left out and a woman answered and that is how I found out it was a girl and confronted him and that is when he said they were just friends. I am not sure what to think,do I call this girl back and ask her what kind of friend she really is,I am just hurt and confused on what I need to do nest?Answer Question
Asked by Anonymous at 2:30 PM on Oct. 18, 2009 in Relationships
Answer by ecodani at 2:32 PM on Oct. 18, 2009
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Answer by louise2 at 3:01 PM on Oct. 18, 2009
Call the woman and see what she says. If he feels the need to lie to you about the situation, then there is probably something else going on. Maybe not - maybe he just didn't want you to be mad at him. BUT also - he could be hiding something. Whatever your gut is telling you is probably right.
Answer by Blubuni99 at 3:24 PM on Oct. 18, 2009
Call her and talk to her. Don't loose your temper or anything. Just tell her he didn't let you know that he had a new friend AND that the friend was a female. I would definitely give her a call, most of us women will tell the truth when it comes to men. Give her YOUR number as well.
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