My husband and I have been married almost 7 years. There has been a speculation that he has another child and I have known that ever since me and him got married. We have four children now and it has been really bothering him that he does know not if it is his or not and that if the child is his it bothers him because the child is not with him. I know it hurts him but every time I try to talk to him about it he gets really emotional and mad. He takes it out on my and his kids. He apologizes for it later on but it still hurts me and the kids that he acts this way. I told my husband that we will take it to court and get a paternity test done. But then again he does not want to disturb him if he is happy with his family now because he is 12 years old. The boys mother lost custody to him and he is now staying with his grandparents. What should we do? How should I deal with my husbands emotions? Please help me, thanks.
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