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Before you have sex....

do you take a shower to make sure your all clean or do you just go for it stinky and all?

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Asked by Anonymous at 12:46 AM on Oct. 19, 2009 in Relationships

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  • I take a shower...
    That grosses me out thinking about having sex while I'm all stinky and/or sweaty. It's just common courtesy to be all sparkling clean and smelling nicely for my hubby, and he returns the favor. He's found I'm a lot more willing when he is as well. :]

    Answer by K_Sawyer at 12:48 AM on Oct. 19, 2009

  • Well, I shower daily but I'm not going to ruin the spontineity to take a shower. So I guess the latter, lol.

    Answer by Ati_13 at 12:48 AM on Oct. 19, 2009

  • ......Shower...both me and him......

    things can happen in there too...

    Answer by LexsiesMommy at 12:52 AM on Oct. 19, 2009

  • i shower when i can, but sometimes its spur of the moment and i dont get a chance. in that case, i dont let him go

    Answer by Anonymous at 1:04 AM on Oct. 19, 2009

  • I shower twice a day, so most of the time, I am only a few hours past a shower anyway. I won't shower right before if things were headed there. However, I will often pursue when I get out of the shower. I come home from work and shower right away, so that doesn't really bother me. If we do get hot and heavy and I feel icky, I will just set certain boundaries, like no oral or no cuddling near my armpits. Things like that.

    Answer by Mom1Stepmom1 at 1:18 AM on Oct. 19, 2009

  • My dh and I both shower on a regular basis, but I don't wait until after I've showered to have sex - somedays that means I might shower 3, 4 times!

    Answer by missanc at 8:06 AM on Oct. 19, 2009

  • We both shower daily so I guess no we rarely shoer right before sex.

    Answer by gulfcoastmom4 at 8:07 AM on Oct. 19, 2009

  • 1st off u shouldnt be stinking

    Answer by Anonymous at 11:18 AM on Oct. 19, 2009

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