Just looking for some re-assurance, I suppose. DH & I have been married 6 years, we have 2 beautiful, healthy boys.
Long, long story short, I have really nasty pregnancies (toxemia, bedrest, weight gains of 60+ lbs., had to get my gums grafted after 2nd pregnancy, etc) and DH and I are basically at our limits financially with the 2 kids we have. We are extremely happy with our family life and we feel that we don't want to test the limits with any more kids.
He has a consultation for a vasectomy in a few weeks. Feel bad for him b/c I don't want him to go through pain (though I did have 2 c-sections, lol!). In my heart, I know this is the right decision for our family, just wondering who else has gone through this and what your thoughts/experiences are. Are you glad? Regretful? Do share! Thanks!
Answer by Jademom07 at 5:59 PM on Oct. 19, 2009
Answer by Steph319 at 6:00 PM on Oct. 19, 2009
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Answer by Rachael06 at 6:33 PM on Oct. 19, 2009
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