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should i keep this pregnancy? your opinions wanted

ok...keping this simple.

on PA, two kids(one whos special needs..in and out of hospital), no job, family helpingus with rent money...should i keep this pregnancy(4weeks)?

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Anonymous

Asked by Anonymous at 1:45 AM on Oct. 20, 2009 in Pregnancy

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  • You need to add more details if you don't want to get super bashed. Were you on BC? Married? Teen? etc. etc.

    Honestly, no one here can tell you what to do. You and the father must choose what you can handle. You have to ask yourself if you can provide a good life for this child, and if the answer is no, adoption may be the solution. But you have to decide that it is the right choice for your family.
    toriandgrace

    Answer by toriandgrace at 1:48 AM on Oct. 20, 2009

  • Yes. You're talking about ending someone else's life. Financial hardship isn't a good reason to kill someone, especially not your own baby.
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 1:53 AM on Oct. 20, 2009

  • adoption is always an option. that's only 9 months out of your life that you can give to someone else to have an entire lifetime. there are many people that would be willing to care for a child that you think you couldn't provide for. we can't tell you what to do. all anyone on here can do is either back you up, encourage you, or insult you in regards to this type of question. my heart pleades that you allow the life to grow and touch someone, whether it be you or someone else.
    Marri357

    Answer by Marri357 at 2:11 AM on Oct. 20, 2009

  • NO IF GOD DIDN'T WANT THAT TINY BABY THERE HE WOULD NOT HAVE PUT THEM THERE... (Jeremiah 1:4-5) 4Then the word of the LORD came unto me, saying,  5Before I formed thee in the belly I knew thee; and before thou camest forth out of the womb I sanctified thee, and I ordained thee a prophet unto the nations. You could really bless somebody with this little miracle through adoption if you can't raise him/her.
    ilovemyboys21

    Answer by ilovemyboys21 at 2:37 AM on Oct. 20, 2009

  • Please look into adoption at least. And always remember that God never gives you more than you can handle.
    mommacierra

    Answer by mommacierra at 3:29 AM on Oct. 20, 2009

  • No one here is walking in your moccasins. YOU have to make the decision. Go talk to the woman in your mirror because she's the one you have to answer to.

    What might help is weighing your pros and cons.
    gdiamante

    Answer by gdiamante at 3:42 AM on Oct. 20, 2009

  • no
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 3:57 AM on Oct. 20, 2009

  • Id give the baby up for adoption. Considering you'll get paid to do it , id do it for yourself financially and for your babys life.
    Steph319

    Answer by Steph319 at 6:35 AM on Oct. 20, 2009

  • "Yes. You're talking about ending someone else's life. Financial hardship isn't a good reason to kill someone, especially not your own baby."


    wow great point
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 3:53 PM on Oct. 20, 2009

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