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How long does it last when you and your SO make love?

minutes? hours? And do you actually get an orgasm? If not do you ever fake it?

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Asked by Anonymous at 1:15 PM on Oct. 20, 2009 in Relationships

Answers (14)
  • it depends....anywhere from 15 minutes to 45 minutes LOL but i always get off

    Answer by Anonymous at 1:15 PM on Oct. 20, 2009

  • very little!!!

    Answer by Anonymous at 1:18 PM on Oct. 20, 2009

  • It can be from 45 min to an hour and a half, yes I always get off and no I never fake it, you can make all the O noises you want but my hubby knows if my vagina is not contracting uncontrollably I am not having an O..

    Answer by midnightmoma at 1:21 PM on Oct. 20, 2009

  • Usually at least 20-30 minutes. I have multiple orgasms and never fake it. Hubby can tell when I orgasm and he believes his job is to make me happy (so to say) so he won't rest until I have at least one.

    Answer by purpleducky at 1:26 PM on Oct. 20, 2009

  • ugh less then 5 minutes. (so not lying either) and right when i'm bout to O he finishes BUMME!!! no joke!

    Answer by Anonymous at 1:29 PM on Oct. 20, 2009

  • Sometimes a good old fashioned quickie lasts maybe 5 or 10 minutes, and I get off about half the time. But, those are far and few between, since our last quickie was about 6 months ago when I was 2 months pregnant! lol
    We usally have sex for about 30 minutes start to finish and I almost always get off, the only exception is this pregnancy, I'm having a super hard time having an orgasm and it's been awhile! Hopefully it will go back to normal after I have this baby!

    Answer by bethany_smith at 1:42 PM on Oct. 20, 2009

  • Quickies are 15-20minutes...on average we last 30mins and I always orgasm..I would never fake. Doesn't do me any good to fake it.

    Answer by worriedmommy600 at 2:19 PM on Oct. 20, 2009

  • We have quickies sometimes that last 5-10 mins but usually around 1/2 hour or so, longer on the weekends when we "play." I always orgasm, he makes sure I do.

    Answer by missanc at 2:19 PM on Oct. 20, 2009

  • for the 6 1/2 years that i was with my EX, never once did i reach a climax with him. i honestly thought i was broken- and he agreed.
    now divorced, and 1 year into a relationship that should have started 10 years ago, i finally realized that it wasn't me, it was him. considering that i don't time our rolls in the hay, i can't say... never once have i walked away from an adventure with him, unsatisfied. i've finally, with a little patience (on his behalf), and a lot of trust (on my behalf), learned the joy of multiple orgasms.
    by the way- why in the hell would someone fake? i never did with my EX, there wasn't anything in it for me.

    Answer by ObbyDobbie at 3:09 PM on Oct. 20, 2009

  • around 30 to 45 minutes and i always get mine...never have i had to fake mine.....

    Answer by Mamaof2boys0709 at 3:26 PM on Oct. 20, 2009

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