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Has anyone tried to conceive for so long and then finally gave up? (Just curious)

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Asked by Anonymous at 6:48 PM on Oct. 20, 2009 in Trying to Conceive

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  • We tried for five years and had given up hope, although we still had unprotected sex.
    A few months later I was pregnant.

    Answer by Anonymous at 7:30 PM on Oct. 20, 2009

  • Not me personally, but a couple in our church had a child, struggled for years, finally said "we give up", got certified or w/e to be foster parents, started in a foster-to-adopt program, were matched up with a baby who they did end up adopting, and didn't realize, due to mom's fertility issues, that she was pregnant - their babies are 9 months apart!

    Answer by Anonymous at 8:08 PM on Oct. 20, 2009

  • My husband and i tried for 8 years, and we the last 2 months of trying, we miscarried, so we gave up, we decided to go on vacation, not try to conceive anymore, and just enjoy non planned sex, well i became pregnate yea, it turned out that when you try and try your body doesnt allow for you to get pregnate, but if you have un planned not thinking of having kids, 20 year old, dare sex it happends.... its been a scientific discovery, you dont want children anymore you will have them...good luck

    Answer by Anonymous at 12:04 PM on Oct. 21, 2009

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