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Is it bad to......

be married and have a harmless crush on someone? he's a good friend...but he's the type of person who always makes me feel better....and it's not like a sexual crush..i'm not sure how to describe it.....


Asked by Anonymous at 11:17 PM on Oct. 20, 2009 in Relationships

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Answers (9)
  • dont worry about it, hes a friend, its normal, especially if you are stressed with your husband, jsut dont let it affect your decisions or make you do something you will regret

    Answer by Laura_Cruz at 2:36 AM on Oct. 21, 2009

  • Normal. And don't act on it. Down the road, some little thing will be a turnoff about this guy and you'll be so glad you never did anything.

    Answer by Anonymous at 11:18 PM on Oct. 20, 2009

  • I personally think it is. Why waste any time investing emotions on someone that is not your husband.

    Answer by Newbegginings04 at 11:19 PM on Oct. 20, 2009

  • i think its normal its just remember who u married and who you didnt you cant turn off your mind

    Answer by armywife2009101 at 11:21 PM on Oct. 20, 2009

  • so, this is what your wedding vows are about.

    Answer by Anonymous at 11:33 PM on Oct. 20, 2009

  • um wedding vows...i remember my didn't say ne thing about harmless friend crushes where you aren't sexually attracted to another person

    Answer by Anonymous at 11:36 PM on Oct. 20, 2009

  • umm..i don't think it's a problem but get away from that person..i actually had a harmless crush and acted on was long ago but it ended badly!! it's sometimes hard to control even the most innocent feelings

    Answer by WAREIZLILYBUGZ at 12:07 AM on Oct. 21, 2009

  • It's not normal (a lot of people have feeling toward someone else but it's not good that's what I mean by not normal) cuz eventually you will start finding things you don't like about your husband and you will make you life miserable, nip it in the butt before your feeling grown stronger, there are no such thing as innocent feeling, feeling is something you can't control eventually they will grow into something not very Innocent.


    Answer by looovemybabies at 12:59 AM on Oct. 21, 2009

  • thank you laura_cruz! i think the word crush is the wrong word to my best friend is a girl...i look forward to her calls and emails and things....and it's the same way with this friend but it's a and i've never had a guy friend that i look forward to things:P

    Answer by Anonymous at 9:38 AM on Oct. 21, 2009