how can I get a new attitude and more energy? when df and I met (15 months ago) I was a fun flirty kind of girl. now that dd is born (2months old) and I have full custody of my 3 year old, I have become extremely boring, bitchy, and lazy. he hasn't said or done anything to suggest he's going to leave but I wouldn't blame him. how can I make myself more fun and flirty like before? I know how to keep my house clean but how do I motivate myself to get off my ass and clean? I know I can do it when dd is sleeping or I can wear her if she's awake and I can get ds to help, making it a game, but I just can't get motivated... HELP!!!!!!!Answer Question
Asked by Anonymous at 10:05 PM on Oct. 21, 2009 in Relationships
Answer by maxsmom11807 at 10:10 PM on Oct. 21, 2009
Answer by christyg at 10:11 PM on Oct. 21, 2009
Answer by Bmat at 10:12 PM on Oct. 21, 2009
I have a 5 year old, 3 year old and 7 month old. I am tired and am always busy. Sometimes the house doesn't get cleaned like it should, but I always make sure that I put time in with my kids. They will never remember what the house looked like when they were little, but they will always remember how much time is spent with them. That is first off. Next, just do one BIG chore a day. Vacuum one day, mop the next, laundry the next. It is important to remember that you do not have to do it all in one day. Also, you do not have to be fun and flirty with a 2 month old. I bet you can't remember how much sleep you got the day before or what color underwear your are wearing right now. Get some rest, play with your kids and things will fall into place as the world turns. You also need to discuss this with your DF. Let him know how you feel and maybe get checked for the baby blues. I hope things get better. Good luck.
Answer by krissyvelazquez at 12:42 AM on Oct. 22, 2009
Answer by bondgirl11 at 5:04 PM on Oct. 22, 2009