obviously i am a mom and shutter at the though of sex offenders and everything....but i was looking at the site the other day ( where it tells you if there are any living around you) ...and I seen a boy who i went to school with, and it said the charge was sex with a minor....
my cousin is his friend so i asked him about it...and when he ( the SO ) was 18....he had sex with his 16 y/o girlfriend...who is still his g/f ! ...her parents pressed charges..and now he is a S/O ....I just find that kind of sad...I dont know him that well...but that is the only thing he is charged with, so I assume it is the onyl thing he has done.... it makes me wonder what would have happend, because when my mom was 16, my dad was 20 ! ( they are still together after 25 years) ....and when i was 17 my husband was 21....so if i had met him earlier...i would have been 16 - he was 20...i just find it sad.
Answer by hypersquirrel at 10:51 PM on Oct. 22, 2009
Answer by DragonRiderMD at 10:56 PM on Oct. 22, 2009
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Answer by justanotherjen at 11:16 PM on Oct. 22, 2009
Answer by canadianmom1974 at 12:09 AM on Oct. 23, 2009
I think he should have known better, at 18, than to have sex with a minor. It's good they're still together, so maybe they didn't need to be having sex when it was illegal. I would press charges in the same situation, even if my kid is consenting. It's not going to hurt anybody to wait, but not waiting can, apparently. I hope it was great sex and worth landing on the list.
And before anyone says it, not everyone has sex as a teen, so that's an invalid argument.
Answer by Pnukey at 1:16 PM on Oct. 23, 2009