My MIL's uncle has Mesothelioma, and is in terrible pain because of it. She was letting me know that he might not make it to the end of the month.
I realize that it's incredibly sad to lose someone dear to you.
She just started sobbing, saying, "He said he didn't want to live. He's just ready to die."
I was telling her that I couldn't blame him, he's in terrible pain and slowly, excruciatingly wasting away. I'm really sad to hear the news. The man can't even urinate... he has a hose from his bladder to a bag and a colostomy bag as well. Wait, is that the same thing?
But anyway, she was saying that he WANTS him to live and then I felt terrible.
I should just stop talking, people accuse me of being too "logical" which maybe that's true. I tried avoiding the subject, but she keeps coming to me, which I don't mind at all... but what would you say then? Besides the typical "He'll be in a better place" etc, etc..
Asked by Anonymous at 3:07 PM on Oct. 23, 2009 in Relationships
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