I finally decided that I was tired of going through the motions. I decided to insist on participating and initiating and to insist he eliminate the things that I didn't like. I decided to have sex on my terms, to go for what I really wanted and in turn, it made it better for both of us. Think about how and where you would enjoy sex if you could do anything, then get as close to that as possible. Have fun.
at 9:19 PM on Oct. 23, 2009
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