My Hubby and I, about a month ago, have allowed my best friend move in with us because he had no where else to go. We told him not to worry about rent because he is working only part time at a company two hours from home. We did however encouraged him to pay for food and electric as much as possible. With that said he has not put money towards electric and has spent maybe sixty bucks in food. This is fine but, the other day he went to make a ham sandwhich for his lunch for work and it has already been eaten. My Hubby and I do not eat lunches at work and I do not like ham. So with that also being said he slams my fridge! Then this morning my roomie over slept and asked my Hubby why he didn't wake him up. Then my Hubby asks him if he is mad and my roomie said he was just dissapointed in my Hubby for not waking him up. I just feel this attitude is totally unexceptable especially what we are providing him with. Advise?Answer Question
Answer by naturepeace at 2:21 AM on Oct. 24, 2009
Well first off, who ate his sandwich. If it was one of you, then suggest apologizing for that. Cuz that is pretty rude IMO. Also, why did he over sleep? Did his alarm not go off? If so was it because of power failure or ya'lls fault? Another thing, if ya'll were awake and you new he had to be somewhere like work, how come one of you just wake him up? Its kinda strange to ask him to pay for his food and electric, but get defensive when you eat his food and not wake him up for I'm guessing work....You do want him to pay for these things, so it would be just common courtesy to wake him up. It is also beneficial for ya'll to do so. I suggest you guys apologize to each other and move on.
Answer by soonmommyof3 at 2:24 AM on Oct. 24, 2009
Also you told him that he didn't have to pay rent, so why would you bring up what ya'll are DOING for him? It's almost like your trying to use that as leverage or something.
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