Okay im pregnant. My brother has been making rude comments towards me lately if hes at my moms when im also there. We all live really close to each other.UGHHH! Me and his wife has never gotten along. Shes bipolar and wont take any meds. He thinks i should just deal w/it. Because im not his whole attitude has changed towards me. He calls me a fat ass bitch,white trash medicaid babby maker, a whole crapload of things that are uncalled for (and in front of my 9yr old and 3yr old). This is not just a one time thing its become pretty regular here lately and he always starts his crap when my husbands out of town working. His wife has lied about several things about me just to start crap then the next time i see her she acts like nothinf ever happened. So sick of it.This has gone on for 5 yrs. Well, what im getting at is would i be wrong to not allow them in to see my baby at the hospital if they show up. After all they have done!Answer Question
Answer by Anonymous at 10:18 AM on Oct. 26, 2009
Answer by rkoloms at 10:22 AM on Oct. 26, 2009
Answer by Anonymous at 10:51 AM on Oct. 26, 2009
Answer by Anonymous at 11:04 AM on Oct. 26, 2009
Answer by Nichole2270 at 11:13 AM on Oct. 26, 2009
Simply tell the nurses that you don't want them there. If they come, tell your nurse you want them gone and she/he will either tell them to leave or get security to get them to leave...they're usually really good about being an advocate for you! And, I agree with the other ladies; you don't need them around you. Remember this: "The only people you need in your life are the ones that need you in theirs" They obviously have issues with you and issues in general and they've made their bed, now they can lay in it.
Answer by beadingmom17 at 11:52 AM on Oct. 26, 2009
I would definitely distance my self from them. As one responder said, they are toxic. Let the maternity ward nurses station know you don't want them there. That doesn't mean they can't slip by if they know your room #. So then it will be up to you to tell them or call a nurse.
Answer by zbee at 12:19 PM on Oct. 26, 2009
Answer by kristal2146 at 12:49 PM on Oct. 26, 2009
Answer by Anonymous at 2:18 PM on Oct. 26, 2009
Answer by ecodani at 5:34 PM on Oct. 26, 2009
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