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how can i get him to want me... sexually

we've been together for a year now. we used to do it 2, 3, 4 times a day. now iam lucky if i get it once a week. he works a very complicated job and is always stressed out and tired. but i want to have sex. ive tried sexy heels and a thong. jumping on top of him. kissing his manhood. wat can i do? And do you think its just work??? please just helpful advise


Asked by krisew90 at 6:08 PM on Oct. 26, 2009 in Relationships

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  • Sometimes the work can just stress a guy out. And sometimes trying to hard, just isn't sexy either when there is stress involved already. He may actually want a more laid back approach to romance, ya know. He may not want the HI How Are Ya, In Your Face, Let's have Sex Now, thing. Your guy may want to have some romance and relaxation. Try making him a nice dinner ( a way to a man is through his stomach) and tell him he gets a full body massage and really follow through with it. Now, make sure you give him a real massage first to get away all his tension and then move to the "IMPORTANT" parts once he's good and relaxed. He may just be in more of a mood than you know by this point. And then next time he can return the favor. :) GL~

    Answer by mom2BOYZnDad at 6:24 PM on Oct. 26, 2009

  • So did you just have a baby? If so that is probably the problem.

    Answer by louise2 at 6:20 PM on Oct. 26, 2009

  • no. that's not the problem necessarily. It could be a number of things, but he might be bored of sexual stuff because he's done it soo much in the past with you. I would try abstaining from sex. Make him miss it a little. Act as if you're not interested, don't change your clothes in front of him, and don't let him have it from you. He thinks he can have it when he wants so it's lost its luster. Make him miss it. Men like that hard to get crap! It's stupid I know...

    Answer by lowencope at 6:25 PM on Oct. 26, 2009