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Is it normal?

My fiancee and I have sex mabye twice a month. We've been together for 6years. He says he just doesn't have the drive that he use to. I am almost absolutely certain he's not cheating. He's only 30, and I am 25. What should I do, make him talk to a doctor? I'm not unattractive by any means, what else could it be?

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cwaters13

Asked by cwaters13 at 9:44 PM on Oct. 26, 2009 in Relationships

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  • He could just be tired or stressed from work
    Shyma

    Answer by Shyma at 9:47 PM on Oct. 26, 2009

  • My fiance and I have only been together for 8 months and he is the same way. If it's important to you, have him have his hormone levels checked out. My fiance has lower testosterone and this causes his sex drive to be lower. Lack of sleep, poor nutrition and being obese or overweight can also affect the libido.
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 9:53 PM on Oct. 26, 2009

  • Mabye it's lack of sleep. He's been this way for 3 years now!
    cwaters13

    Answer by cwaters13 at 9:54 PM on Oct. 26, 2009

  • Six yrs is a long time and maybe sex isn't that important to him anymore.
    admckenzie

    Answer by admckenzie at 12:11 AM on Oct. 27, 2009

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