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Should i take him back?????????????/

My ex-husband and i have been divorced for almost 11 months. we have still been in touch and still seeing each other off and on. we have talked about getting back together, but i have moved to another city and went back to school. he would like to move here with me and our son and take it slow and try again. He wants us to try marriage again and maybe have another child but this is a long term commitment he wants but just not now, he was thinking a year or two from now. What do i do give us another chance, would i be crazy to remarry him. we had been together 7 1/2 years and married 4 years. what do i do please give advice.

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Asked by MissTrevon at 10:41 PM on Oct. 27, 2009 in Relationships

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  • You have been together 71/2 years, married for 4. You knew him then, you know him know. People don't change. If the reason you divorced him was for a reason that in his personality he cannot change, then I would say no.

    Answer by SEEKEROFSHELLS at 10:46 PM on Oct. 27, 2009

  • i feel like u would just be setting yourself up,think long & hard b4 u get involved again.there was a reason for your divorce.i say no.

    Answer by Anonymous at 10:52 PM on Oct. 27, 2009

  • honestly i would say you probably need to ask yourself a few questions. why did you get a divorce in the beginning? was it something that if it came up again you could work it out? i would say why not give it a shot. i would watch with you kid(s) though. you dont want to involve them so if you decide it wont work they get hurt. thats a good start though if you have been talkikng. i would try going on some dates and take things slow at first. gl :)

    Answer by OliviasMommy614 at 10:54 PM on Oct. 27, 2009

  • Why are you divorced? I would finish school , get on with life & see where it leads you.

    Answer by mommorgan at 11:15 PM on Oct. 27, 2009

  • You could meet someone soooo much better i say no

    Answer by Anonymous at 12:53 AM on Oct. 28, 2009

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