My SO and I have been together about 4 years. He has a temper and for a period of about 6 months in our relationship he was abusive, physically and emotionally. We broke up this last march because of his behavior and I started to talk to someone else. As soon as we broke up, the SO did a complete transformation, started meds and therapy, and all has been well for the last 7 months. The brief friendship that I had started with this other person was over just about as soon as it started. So, all has been good with the SO and I...but he keeps bringing up the past and expressing how angry and upset he is...and he says things like "make me feel better about it"...well im sick of making him feel "better"...he treated me like shit and I had enough of it and made the decision to move on...why doesn't he get this and shut the hell up about what happened in the past???
Asked by Anonymous at 5:50 PM on Oct. 28, 2009 in Relationships
Answer by naturepeace at 6:04 PM on Oct. 28, 2009
Answer by TheDiva320 at 6:00 PM on Oct. 28, 2009
Answer by gdiamante at 6:54 PM on Oct. 28, 2009
I had enough of it and made the decision to move on.
Looks like you made your mine up already. Get on with life. He can only make himself happy.
Answer by Anonymous at 8:09 PM on Oct. 28, 2009