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I cant stand the sight of my MIL...She is seriously unstable & causes so many problems!!

Very long story short. I been married to hubby for 5yrs, we have a 13mo old son & are currently expecting our 2nd + I have raised his 2 ages 9 & 12 like my own. My MIL is bi-polar & unstable. Through the yrs I have put up w/her crocodile tears & phony acts, her trying to have me arrested for kidnapping my own kids, trying 2 run me over & my hubby w/her ford tundra, trying 2 turn the whole family against us, calling CPS on a family member & blaming us, calling friends & family & church members making scenes, ALWAYS CONSTANTLY asking/demanding money for anything/everything, She cant go a day w/out some drama that just puts severe stress on our lives & anyone/everyone around her. I recently just got fed up & made the decision to cut all ties w/her. I blocked her home & cell from calling my home, I erased & blocked her from all my social networking sites, She can see the kids w/my hubby but thats it. Been 2mos & Im done w/her!

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whispers2005

Asked by whispers2005 at 6:39 PM on Oct. 28, 2009 in Relationships

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  • and I thought i had trouble with my MIL. I think that it's best if you don't talk to her. I'd be afraid to have my kids around her. What does your hubby think about her behavior? Maybe it would be less drama just to not associate with her for a while. I've learned not to have too many family member as friends on your social networking sites too. My brother now wife caused a bunch of drama over a social network site so i'm choosy about who I let see my pages.
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 6:47 PM on Oct. 28, 2009

  • And your question is? Seems to me you chose the right solution. If hubby doesn't see it he's got rocks in his head.
    gdiamante

    Answer by gdiamante at 6:47 PM on Oct. 28, 2009

  • This is more of a journal entry not appropriate for the Answers forum
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 7:53 PM on Oct. 28, 2009

  • She sounds toxic, good for you. how has the last two months been?
    DevilInPigtails

    Answer by DevilInPigtails at 7:55 PM on Oct. 28, 2009

  • Good for you!
    wildflowers25

    Answer by wildflowers25 at 8:23 PM on Oct. 28, 2009

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