if she disapproves, its probably for a reason. not to just side with your mom.
getting an order of protection isn't easy, i should know after the hell i just put behind me- so, that said... it has to be serious. you can still get child support etc. without a heck of a lot of involvement on his behalf. and you, if you are at risk, should maintain an OP if you can. i know its just paper, but when the cops come, its paper that will MAKE them do something.
its your life, weigh the risks carefully. if something happened to you, he is the father, and in most cases, would get custody if he wasn't in jail... see what i mean here?
think wisely, be careful, and decide whats worth your time, energy, stress, and safety. and most importantly, the safety of your baby.
at 10:13 PM on Oct. 28, 2009