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very upset

im so confused 1 min my boyfriend wants to be wit me the next he makes up excuses 2 bail. is he bein scared or bein a butt. should i really believe he loves or should i say forget it its over. dnt wana hurt the baby in the long run either

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Asked by Anonymous at 12:08 AM on Oct. 29, 2009 in Relationships

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  • how old r you both? Was this baby planned? how was your relationship before you got pregnant? He may just be scared with all the new responsibility. Talk to him. No matter what, you and your baby deserve stability. and that might mean you are better off without a guy who can't commit...

    Answer by Anonymous at 12:11 AM on Oct. 29, 2009

  • Many young men don't like to commit to a relationship so it's possible he loves you but doesn't want a long term relationship with you. (or anyone for that matter)

    Answer by admckenzie at 12:14 AM on Oct. 29, 2009

  • It sounds like he playing games with you and thats not healthy for you or baby. Its all or nothing at all. He should wanna be with you nd not keep changing his mind constantly. Maybe he has another women that he messing around with nd feels guilty... Not SAYING that he is but thats what I would think. But all Men are different. Follow ur heart U deserve better. Find a man that will love u all the time not just part time. GL

    Answer by Tara04 at 3:01 AM on Oct. 29, 2009

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