When I had my youngest child, I had my tubes tied. I got divorced, and now I am dating again. My question is, at what point do I tell a new man that I am not able or willing to have more kids? I feel like I should tell them rather early on, so we don't waste each other's time if he's dead set on having (more) biological children, but I also think telling him on a first or second date would imply that I am thinking more seriously of our relationship than I really am. I mean, the guy I am talking to right now (we've not yet met) says he doesn't care if he has bio kids or not (just in general conversation when I mentioned that I have kids), so to him, I don't think it would make a difference, but I'm just not sure when I should bring it up.Answer Question
Asked by Anonymous at 5:14 PM on Oct. 31, 2009 in Relationships
Answer by Zakysmommy at 5:43 PM on Oct. 31, 2009
Answer by MrsLeftlane at 5:53 PM on Oct. 31, 2009
Answer by Anonymous at 7:15 PM on Oct. 31, 2009
I would wait until it is more serious. You don't have to bring it up any way shape or form until then. I mean if you are having sex just tell you are protected, he doesn't need to know how. I know my hubby and I talked about the kid issue before we got married and neither of us had any. I think kids, discipline and money should all be discussed well before it can become an issue.
Answer by DevilInPigtails at 8:03 PM on Oct. 31, 2009
Answer by Anonymous at 10:31 PM on Oct. 31, 2009
Answer by Anonymous at 9:19 AM on Nov. 1, 2009
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