Long story short, I was sexually abused as a child by my father and two of my brothers. My sister was abused by my father and one of my brothers.
My sister basically uses me and we had a huge falling out where she said I needed anger management and I told her she uses me and I had the right to get angry. We haven't seen each other since, about a year ago.
My brother has seen my youngest child once since he was born and it aggravates me because I know he is choosing the brother that abused me over me and I don't know what to say to that. I invited him to my son's birthday party and he does live semi far away, but he was in town and chose not to come.
Is it healthier to just cut ties with these people or should I try to make amends?
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