First, you need to get to know yourself, be happy with yourself, be confident. Get some hobbies, have a life that fulfills you w/o a man, so that you aren't looking for a man to complete it. Make sure you don't come across as desperate (not saying you do), b/c that always attracts the wrong quality of man.
Know what you want from a man, and from a relationship, and then take that list and figure out the absolute dealbreakers (meaning since you're on here, you must have kids, so a dealbreaker would be he must love kids, where as not drinking is one you want but isn't necessarily a huge deal) and then any man that doesn't meet the standards of those absolute dealbreakers, just keep going. If you catch yourself thinking "Maybe I can change that" or "Maybe he'll change", keep going.
at 6:43 AM on Nov. 3, 2009