I'm now a SAHM. I love it but i do miss working. My kids are great and i love spending the time with them. My problem is lately my husband thinks that because he works when he gets home its nap time and sometimes until the next morning. I havent slept a full night or more than an hour at a time in 3 months. I've tried to tell him that sometimes i need help with the kids, or something around the house, or if he could feed the baby once in a while so i can take a shower wihtout inturruption but it hasnt sunk in. Now, im starting to get aggrivated, i love my family but its not fair. While i was preggo with my newborn i worked 3rd shift, still did my daily routine when i got home and finally after dinner got 2-3 hours of sleep before work until 7 am and again the next day. He works 8 hours a day so if he wants a nap thats fine, but all night??? We dont even speak much anymore because of this. Its starting to really hurt.Answer Question
Asked by Anonymous at 9:33 AM on Nov. 4, 2009 in Relationships
Answer by Mrs.Oriaku at 9:36 AM on Nov. 4, 2009
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Answer by missbreezy214 at 10:25 AM on Nov. 4, 2009
Make plans one weekend for you to be out of the house for a day and let him be in charge. Don't call or anything. See what he says about it.
Also with my hubby when he wasn't helping. I sat down and made a list of everything I do and told him that if he does 4 or 5 things I wold be willing to do my list. He said if you do it. I shot back what do you think I have been doing, dishes and cloths don't wash themselves. It sunk in right there, he no longer complained and did his chores.
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