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dating a baby dadddy/s. offender

was with this man for ten years ,now hes incarcarated for messing with someone that i truely love and was close to and he still want us to betogether and before he went in we wasnt together i broke it off and he say he changed do he need another chance by me or do i need to leave this loser alone even though we have a child together and she only 9 and i want have him around her but she don't understand why.help please!

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oneone11

Asked by oneone11 at 2:09 PM on Nov. 4, 2009 in Relationships

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  • So he is in jail for a sexual offense? If so you should stay away and keep your child away from him. Only a moron would go back to someone like him. Your daughter is 9 and old enough to be told her dad is not a good person and maybe even tell her what he did. I would not lie for him.
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 2:13 PM on Nov. 4, 2009

  • I wouldnt be with him. He'd be dead to me. When she is old enough explain to her why you kept her from her daddy. She will understand. OH and he DEF didnt change. He's a perv those people can't be helped just controlled. How can he control himself with a little girl around him. Protect your daughter. Keep him away.
    Mrs.Oriaku

    Answer by Mrs.Oriaku at 2:14 PM on Nov. 4, 2009

  • What will Steve Wilkos Say? lol
    navajomama7

    Answer by navajomama7 at 3:26 PM on Nov. 4, 2009

  • nope. i wouldnt go back. why? 1-- he's in jail. how long will be he there for? why's he in jail- its not because he was messing with someone you truly love-- unless it was a child.... once a man goes to jail, they will continue to go to jail. once they get out, they will leave your sorry ass, for new ass- because they can when they are out.. when they are inside, they are stuck with whoever is willing to put up with them.

    2- he cheated on you.... at least thats what i think when you say he was messing around with someone you love. messing around= cheating. i'd never take anyone back after cheating on me. nope. sorry

    leave him alone. if your DD wants to write him in jail, then fine- she can do that. she can see him when he gets out- if he's not a sex offender, at least. but as for the whole "happy family" thing? nope. he broke that trust, he's in jail. he's gotta deal. i'd be happily out there meeting new- FREE- men.
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 3:42 PM on Nov. 4, 2009

  • your stupid and irresponsible if you go back
    moki1984

    Answer by moki1984 at 3:59 PM on Nov. 4, 2009

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