hi ladies, i just want some support. my husband and i really wanted to have another child. my son is 2 now. we thought about it and talked about it for 3 mos then decided to stop preventing pregnancy and got pregnant right away! yay! so lucky, i know how lucky that is.
but now i am feeling scared and thinking "what were we thinking!" and "i don't want another!" "s/he'll just mess up what we have with our son!" etc. i know it's just hormones and freaking out.
my husband gets upset if i say anything about it. he tries to be supportive but... you know...
the exhaustion and all day sickness aren't helping i know. and work is stressful during october/november for me. bla
thanks ladies for any kind words of encouragement. this is a planned pregnancy, i can't believe i am feeling this way.
Asked by Anonymous at 10:40 AM on Nov. 5, 2009 in Pregnancy
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Answer by Anonymous at 10:48 AM on Nov. 5, 2009
I have always been afraid that i could never love another like i do my first. My friends all say that your heart just grows. i think fear is natural to a life change. I'm sure it will be a great experience and your feelings about it will be up and down throughout the pregnancy. You may feel guilt about time taken from you 1st child or financial worries or exhaustion, but all this will pass. When u start to get really worried watch 18 and counting (my dd cause it 18 and pregnant) and you will start to count your blessings:) Good luck!
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